One of the most common mistakes when preparing for a proposal is getting the ring size wrong. It might seem like a small detail, but it can cause unnecessary stress or even make the moment less enjoyable if the ring doesn’t fit. The last thing you want is for your partner to receive an engagement ring that’s too big or too small, especially in such an emotional and unforgettable moment. Thankfully, with a little creativity and subtlety, it’s possible to figure out your partner's size without raising suspicion.
The key to getting the right size is to gather information without giving away your intentions. If your partner already wears rings, you can borrow one and have it sized at a jeweler. You could also try to discreetly ask their friends or family for help if you’re unsure. Another option is to trace the inside of one of their rings on a piece of paper, or use a piece of string to measure their finger. If you’re still uncertain, it’s always safer to choose a ring that’s slightly larger, as resizing a ring that’s too small can be more challenging.
It’s important to remember that most jewelers offer free resizing services after the proposal, so if you’re in a bind, don’t panic. However, getting as close as possible to the correct size beforehand will make the proposal feel even more special and give your partner a seamless experience when they slip the ring on their finger. A little effort to make sure the ring fits just right can ensure the moment feels as flawless as it should.