When it comes to planning a proposal, the biggest mistake people make is thinking it has to look like someone else’s idea of “perfect.” The truth is, the most powerful proposals are the ones that feel authentic to your relationship — not someone else's Pinterest board.
Start by tuning into what defines your connection. Are you the adventurous couple who loves to travel and explore? Or the homebodies who feel happiest curled up together on a Friday night? Maybe you’re goofy, maybe you’re serious — whatever your dynamic is, lean into it. The proposal should feel like an extension of who you are together, not an act you’re performing.
If you’re both low-key, a simple proposal at home over a favorite meal might be far more meaningful than an elaborate event. If you both love the outdoors, a mountaintop or beach proposal might capture your spirit perfectly. If you share a love for the arts, proposing at a gallery, museum, or even a movie theater could be a perfect fit.
Next, think about how you naturally express love to each other. If you usually communicate through words, a heartfelt speech will go a long way. If shared experiences mean more, then crafting a special day around the proposal — a hike, a picnic, a road trip — can make it even richer.
The bottom line: don’t chase trends. Chase truth. A proposal that's true to your relationship will always feel more magical and unforgettable than any “perfect” setup could ever hope to be.